Yesterday was our 20th Wedding anniversary!!!!! It's hard to believe 20 years has gone so fast. I am a very lucky girl who was lucky enough to find my soul mate! My Hubbie and I adore each other and love each other for who they truly are. He accepts me unconditionally - faults and all!
I remember when I was a young girl asking my Mom - "How do you know" when you find your prince charming? She would always just say - "You just know" this answer was never satisfying for me, as I couldn't believe how simple it was...until I met my Hubbie....I just knew, and all of a sudden I realized what my Mom was saying. Everyone deserves to be loved as much as I am!
Our son, was asking me the same type of questions the other day...He ran into his ex, whom he is having a hard time getting over. We all have that "special" one in our hearts - you know, the one that took a piece and you still think of them every so often.....This girl has taken a piece of Brandons heart...his first true love.....He is at the point in his life where the girls he is meeting are either into parties or looking for a husband. Brandon is neither one of those, and is finding it hard to find quality females. I remember those tough times of feeling restless and frustrated in not finding anyone of quality!
I tried to not use the cliche of your time will come, and don't rush into things, there are plenty of fish in the sea.....I wanted to be understanding to his feelings, so I told him that when he finds the "right girl" it will be easy! This I know for sure...when I met my Hubbie, it was easy - we never had issues about lifestyle or friends as it all was EASY!.....
So I raise my glass to my Hubbie and I for sticking it through thick and thin for the last 20 years and I look forward to what is to come....If my parents are any inclination (they've been married 50 yrs) I know I will have a fantastic future with my darling Hubbie....As for Brandon, hold on darling, when you are least expected you will find that special girl who will love you for who you truly are!
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